Just Another Girl here. So I hope you tuned in to hear about my interesting night I had. The two glasses of mountain dew and an entire day of sitting around my small apartment made me stir crazy and a bit of an insomniac. Around 3 am I received an email on OK cupid from a 37 year old man. I was going to delete the message right then and there, but I was bored and had nothing better to do. So I took the time to read his message. The man claimed to be a CEO for a company in Plano, TX. For my MN friends Plano is the richer Wayzata of TX. The place where all the people with money live in the Dallas/ Fort worth area. The poor college student side of me was a bit intrigued. So I began reading his appeal.
This man was recently divorced and was looking for a fun relationship with a younger girl. He said something along the lines of "I want to spoil you, if you'll let me." Again my boredom got the best of me and I decided to email him back respectfully declining his offer. A few minutes later however I receive a message from him. He wanted to know why I was so reluctant to just grab coffee with him. I simply stated that he was 37 and I was 23. The age difference was clearly something that I wasn't into. He then began to "negotiate". He stated that he had a lot of money and that he would pay me 2K to just go on a date with him. This made me very suspicious. What were the strings attached to this deal? 2k is a lot for someone like me, but the risk and my morals kept my guard up. I declined his offer again, but this man would not give up. He bumped up his offer to 5K. This time however it would be for more than just a simple date. I began to get a little offended. I wasn't something he could buy, but a part of me was a bit turned on that someone would want to pay FIVE THOUSAND dollars for me. It is a weird feeling when your morals are tested by money. Money I desperately need for student loan and London.
I began to think hard about this, but I could not imagine this could be a good situation. A safe situation. I again told him no and that I was not that kind of girl. He shouldn't have to buy someone's time. He then made one final offer. He would pay me 10K to just give him a chance, and then if things went somewhere he would pay me 1K every time after. At this point London, Pairs, Chanel purses, and Burberry floated through my mind. I could have more money than I have ever had in my lifetime, for just one night with this guy! It was 4 am at this point and I was aware that any decisions made after 2 am are usually bad ones. So I told him no thank you. He told me to think on it.
A few days later he popped up on my messages again. He asked if I had thought about his offer. I once again told him no.
1. He was 37
2. Not even close to my type
3. My morals would never allow me
4. I didn't know him
5. This was not safe!
He disagreed with me once again that I should just give him a chance. "Couldn't you be some psycho killer?" I asked. He laughed at that and sent me the website of his company. Sure enough there was his picture on the page and everything seemed legit. Now I was really confused. "Why would you need to pay someone" I asked... Besides his obvious age and appearance. "Because it's kind of a fantasy to finance your trip abroad." He said. Soo guys like being Sugar Daddies? It's some sort of turn on?
This Love for Money thing has me all twisted. Part of you feels extremely guilty that part of you is tempted by the green. It is somehow flattering that you could be worth 10 thousand dollars. Am I a bad person for being intrigued? Now I wont do anything stupid or rash, but 10K isn't something you can just walk away from.
I know a few people in the sex industry and it has always been interesting to me, but the question of whether I could do that...well that has been plaguing my mind.
Help?
Just Another Girl.
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