I CAN'T GET NO SATISFACTION
And it's a god damn shame. We all have been there, in bed, trying our hardest and yet the end never comes so to speak. Cosmo magazine has always alerted me that this is common and normal for women, but lately I've noticed that it's not just the women who have problems coming to fruition.
This could be caused by a number of things, liquor, nerves, maybe he has masturbated before, or maybe he's too afraid to show you how he likes it done. Every guy is different, but nothing is more disappointing than not getting proof of a "job" well done. As vile as it sounds, an orgasm is like a pat on the back for both partners. It's two bodies working as one, both aiming to please the other. However, after about an hour or so of foreplay and thrusting shouldn't there be a point where if it's going to happen it should have already? Can some guy answer me this question, if you can't orgasm, what is the point? This morning I had a lovely conversation with my two girlfriends Mary Jane and Tiger Lily, both have encountered men that were nearly impossible to please. One had never cum during sex! How is this possible?
I thought men were supposed to cum on cue? Obviously all of the horrible teen movies never prepared me for this obstacle. Though the girl may be having great earth shattering sex with the guy, my experience tells me that most would be unsatisfied if she couldn't return the favor. Let me know your thoughts on this topic. I know there are more of you out there than you are willing to admit.
Ha, this is right up my ally...more or less. Let's pretend I'm just anonymous for this post. You don't know me, or who I'm about to talk about in a strictly professional manner. Well, at least I'm gonna try.
ReplyDeleteSome guys have difficulty with this due to a number of things. One being sports. If the guy ever had a sports injury *down there* it affects performance. My sister dealt with this a lot. Also guys that suffer from depression or ptsd have a really difficult time with performance too. I got the latter of that situation, and as much as it TOTALLY KILLS, when it does happen, it's like how it should be every time. It's just like with any other issue, it's something you either deal with or move on to something else. Although it's not as common in males as in females, it exists. That's why they have Cialis and Viagra. Unfortunately for women, the female orgasm still remains a medical mystery and it's a hell of a lot more common for us not to be able to feel that release. The best you can do is educate yourself and do what you can for you.